Falling in Love with a Real Person

TOM KAULITZ!! lol

i fell for him the minute i saw his gorgeous face.

my dream- fall in love like in comic ^^

cuz candii like this thats why i like this

Falling in love with fictional characters or out-of-reach famous people depresses me. Why swoon over someone who will never know you exist and could probably have any girl he wanted to. Why would he pick you; a 'nobody'? That's how I would feel in a relationship like that. It's like a one-way relationship. You're in love with him because he's famous and good-looking, and he likes you because of it. But what about admiring from afar, when you've never met him? It seems like false hope to me. It's kind of like a girl who loves a band only for it's members and not for it's music. I refuse to do that. Whether it's a band or a person that I'm a fan of, I like to only be a fan of their work and not the people behind it. It's like it's only me appreciating them, and them not appreciating me at all. I think maybe I just need to do something creative with my life and be appreciated for it. Maybe that's why I'm so upset about it. Maybe I'm just one of those people who were born to do something and be adored for it, not a person who doesn't mind just being a fan. I personally don't like working in the background trying to help the 'show' go on. I hate that. I volunteered to work the video screen for my youth group for a while once; I couldn't stand it. One thing that I've always wanted to do is to be a musician; and by sitting in the back working the video lyrics for the band's songs, I felt like I was just helping other people be what I can't. It sounds very selfish of me to think that way.

Famous people rise up by the support of their fans; I don't want to be one of those fans. I want to be the one who is looked upon as someone who did something wonderful and creative. I don't want to be famous. Fame is not my goal. In fact, if I ever do something great, I don't want to be famous. I think there is a fine line between being famous and being noticed and appreciated. Honestly? I think the difference is that fame is the love of the person whether or not they did something amazing, and appreciation is the love for what the person accomplished. My goal is the second, for many reasons. One being that if I were famous, all the attention would go to me, not God. If I were appreciated, I would have the choice and ability to give all the credit to God who gave me whatever gift I used to create the thing I was being noticed for. Of course, I would choose to give Him credit.

Another reason is that when someone is famous, people are jealous and they try to destroy that person with all their might, even if what they are destroying them with isn't true.

When someone is appreciated and hasn't gotten a big head, people have a much harder time trying to destroy that person because the person never implied that they themselves were amazing, but their creative work. And if their creative work is good, then what is there to destroy? Even if they still try to destroy that person, their fans will still be faithful because while the appreciated person may change completely and make mistakes, the work they created will be the same. You see, their fans are not relying on the person to be great, but his or her work.

 All that said, I hope never to become famous but to be noticed for my creative work and to give God credit for that work, and to marry someone who loves and appreciates me just as much as I love and appreciate him.

is it even possible to fall in love with a fictional character?

As if it's not depressing enough to fall in love with someone that's out of reach.